Breaking “The Day of Silence” - How I Disagree w/ the AFA
The Intro: Last week I received an email from a friend of mine in Michigan. Actually, Iit was a forward he sent from the American Family Association (AFA). I typically do not open forwards (regardless as to who they are from), but the subject line captured my
attention. The subject made reference to the “Day of Silence” protest that will take place tomorrow, April 17 in most public schools, primarily Jr. and Sr. High schools. The conservative Christian response to the ”Day of Silence” has caused much debate, even among friends, so I was immediately intrigued.
The Background: The “Day of Silence” protest is sponsored by the Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) and it calls for silence among the gay and lesbian student community (and supporters) for the whole day, even during class times/instruction. This is an effort to promote their socio-political position in their schools and communities.
(Just a side note: I will be interested in knowing how the media will cover this protest as opposed to the Tax Day Tea Party protest that took place yesterday.)
The Issue: The American Family Associate (AFA) sent out an Action Alert to their membership concerning a response to the GLSEN “Day of Silence”. Obviously, I am a PRO-FAMILY guy. I am not totally opposed to the AFA, they do a lot of great things to raise awareness and offer a number of great resources for families. However, I do happen to disagree with their approach to this “Day of Silence.” The AFA has suggested those parents, who stand in opposition of the “Day of Silence” that they keep their children home tomorrow if their school plans to recognize this protest. This is where I disagree. The AFA also suggest that parents call their child’s school and voice their dissatisfaction. I would agree with that action.
The Disagreement: I agree that this sort of protest should not be happening in our schools and the “politicalization” thereof. I do believe, however, in the First Amendment and the right to “peacefully assemble.” One may say, “it’s a day of silence, how can silence disturb the peace?” I would submit to you that in this particular setting it would be a complete disturbance in the classroom, not only for the students not participating, but for the teachers as well (a great disrespect to them). My problem is not necessarily with the protest; they have that right, as I do. My problem is with the Action Alert coming from the AFA calling for parents to keep their kids home. What kind of message does this send? This is another classic example of the conservative/Christian community on the run. Should we not send our children to be an example? Nobody is forcing them to have to participate. I would love for those who stand oppose to the “Day of Silence” to BREAK the SILENCE by their words and actions (by action, I am not suggesting violence). We should strive to LIVE and LEAD by example. I wish Jovie were old enough to attend school tomorrow, I would send her as a proud parent, knowing that I have taught her what I believe to be true and right and they she can take a stand and lead by example. By the way, if we were to keep our children out of school tomorrow, would we not be increasing the silence? One cannot speak, if one is not there. The Liberal movement is so good at ignoring the conservative movement that the Liberals press on as if we do not exists. The reason for this is that we have allowed them to walk all over us because we cut and run. Would not keeping our children home from school tomorrow be a victory to the GLSEN? It would be another strike in the win column.
The Conclusion: Take a stand! Be an example of the believer! Make this a day of living out loud. The public school may not be allowed to talk about the love of God, but your student can. Perhaps your child can have an impact on others by simply reaching out and displaying the love of God by leading by example.
The Small Print (just not small): I am by no means suggesting that I agree with the day of protest or homosexual behavior. While I believe that homosexuality is a sin, I do believe that we should reach them, love them, and have compassion on them. I heard a response once that we should pray that God would reveal to them their sin; I pray that God would reveal my sin and that I would be a living sacrifice in this lost and dying world.
David said, “Search me, O God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my anxieties; and see if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way of everlasting.” If this sort of prayer is coming from one God considered a “man after His own heart,” then I’ve got some serious praying to do.








